Together, we have faith

Nov 6, 2025
Week #44 — Day 5
Confession and Thanksgiving
Q. 98. What is prayer?
A. Prayer is an offering up of our desires unto God, for things agreeable to his will, in the
name of Christ, with confession of our sins, and thankful acknowledgment of his mercies.
Ps. 62:8; 1 John 5:14; John 16:23; Ps. 32:5-6; Dan. 9:4; Phil. 4:6.
“Q & A 117
Q. What is the kind of prayer that pleases God and that he listens to?
A. First, we must pray from the heart to no other than the one true God, revealed to us in his Word, asking for everything God has commanded us to ask for. Second, we must fully recognize our need and misery, so that we humble ourselves in God’s majestic presence.
Third, we must rest on this unshakable foundation: even though we do not deserve it,
God will surely listen to our prayer because of Christ our Lord. That is what God promised us in his Word.” (Heidelberg Catechism)
Confession and thanksgiving. Sadly these two crucial elements of prayer can be missing in our approach to God. “Give me, give me” must be replaced by “forgive me, forgive me.” Confession is simply yet profoundly saying the same thing God says about our state. It is humbling ourselves in the majestic and mighty presence of God. It is recognizing our need and misery. Those who stroll into God’s presence demanding Him are way off the mark of true prayer. We are sinners saved by marvelous grace, unworthy to be in God’s presence. Yet, He has graciously invited us into such Presence. We come as beggars to the King of kings.
Thanksgiving flows from such confession. We do not deserve God’s favor and grace, though He freely gives us such grace. Gratefulness flows from a heart humbled yet certain of God’s mercy. Study the prayers of the Bible and note how these twin elements of confession and thanksgiving frame the prayers of saints in the past. Are they always in your prayers?
A Puritan Prayer —
“THOU RIGHTEOUS AND HOLY SOVEREIGN,
In whose hand is my life and whose are all my ways,
Keep me from fluttering about religion;
fix me firm in it,
for I am irresolute;
my decisions are smoke and vapour,
and I do not glorify thee,
or behave according to thy will;
Cut me not off before my thoughts grow to responses,
and the budding of my soul into full flower,
for thou art forbearing and good,
patient and kind.
Save me from myself,
from the artifices and deceits of sin,
from the treachery of my perverse nature,
from denying thy charge against my offences,
from a life of continual rebellion against thee,
from wrong principles, views, and ends;
for I know that all my thoughts, affections,
desires and pursuits are alienated from thee.
I have acted as if I hated thee, although thou art love itself;
have contrived to tempt thee to the uttermost,
to wear out thy patience;
have lived evilly in word and action.
Had I been a prince
I would long ago have crushed such a rebel;
Had I been a father
I would long since have rejected my child.
O, thou Father of my spirit,
thou King of my life,
cast me not into destruction,
drive me not from thy presence,
but wound my heart that it may be healed;
break it that thine own hand may make it whole.”
Excerpt From
The Valley of Vision
Edited by Arthur Bennett


